The One Where We Aren’t All The Same
• September 11, 2011 • Leave a CommentPosted in aromanticism, body image, gender, mental health, musings, rant, sexuality
Tags: acculturation, aromanticism, asexuality, autism, autistic sexuality, cult of love, emotional capacity, emotional fortitude, emotional intelligence, emotions, empathy, gender, gender roles, gender stereotypes, heteronormativity, labels, love, mental health, myth, neurodiversity, non-neurotypical, prejudice, sexual diversity, social issues, social justice, socialization, society
The One On The Myth Of Unspoken Consent
• September 5, 2011 • 4 CommentsPosted in aromanticism, Consent, fetishism, gender, mental health, rant, sexuality
Tags: ableism, acculturation, anthropology, aromanticism, asexuality, autism, autistic sexuality, binarism, biological essentialism, busted, consensual, consent, consent is sexy, cult of love, date rape, domesticated gender traits, dominant paradigm, emotional capacity, emotional fortitude, emotional intelligence, emotional shielding, emotions, fetishism, gender, gender roles, gender stereotypes, gray rape, gray-a, heteronormativity, labels, love, mental health, neurodiversity, neurotypical, no means no, non-neurotypical, nonverbal consent, normative femininity, normative masculinity, penetration centrism, psychology, queer, queer culture, radical consent, rape culture, relationships, revocable consent, sexism, sexual diversity, sexual negotiations, sexuality, soapboxing, socialization, socialized female, socialized male, society, sociology, stone, stone butch, stone sexual expression, stone sexual identity, stone sexuality, trans, yes means yes
The One With Hugo Schwyzer
• April 17, 2011 • Leave a CommentPosted in gender, mental health, musings
Tags: acculturation, anthropology, aromanticism, autism, avoidance, avoiding your problems, butch code, codependency, cult of love, emotional capacity, emotional fortitude, emotional intelligence, emotional processing, emotional shielding, emotions, female masculinity, gender, gender roles, gender stereotypes, guy code, heteronormativity, hiding from your problems, Hugo Schwyzer, lesbian processing, love, male masculinity, masculinity, mental health, mr. sinclair sexmith, normative femininity, normative masculinity, personal, processing, queer, queer culture, relationship dynamics, relationships, romanticism, running away, running from your problems, sexism, sexist acculturation, sinclair sexsmith, social anxiety, socialization, socialized female, socialized male, sociology, sugarbutch, trans, trans masculinity, transmasculinity
The One Where I Celebrate Lupercalia Damnit
• February 14, 2011 • Leave a CommentPosted in aromanticism, rant
Tags: aromanticism, celebrating, cult of love, history, holidays, love, relationships, romantic orientation, romanticism, sexuality, valentine's day
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